chore: upgrade k8s to 1.33.1

[pjiang-dev]

closes #22805
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1. All k8s libs and controller runtime to 1.33.1. Then ran go mod tidy, go mod vendor
2. Ran make codegen local to generate all code with new k8s version
3. New controller-runtime has a breaking change where we need to create a manager to create a controller, so i've created a fake manager for the test to maintain the same test coverage.

Minor changes to controller metrics test as now we cannot use a 'nil' manager with latest controller-runtime

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[andrii-korotkov]

There seems to be a number of unrelated changes, can we move those to separate PRs, please, making this as small as possible?

[pjiang-dev]

There seems to be a number of unrelated changes, can we move those to separate PRs, please, making this as small as possible?

Actually all the changes are made are from re-running the make codegen-local command. This is to ensure the new version 1.33.1 is compatible with existing generated code.

The only other change is the metrics_test which is a required change when upgrading controller-runtime to the latest version.

i've updated the PR description to describe everything that was changed.