optimize: add workflow for MacOS and Windows

[wangliang181230]

Same as #6081 in 2.x branch

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测试成功日志（Test success log）：

https://github.com/wangliang181230/seata/actions?query=branch%3Atest-optimize

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #6151 (46b5afa) into develop (0710c64) will decrease coverage by 0.06%.
Report is 1 commits behind head on develop.
The diff coverage is 17.07%.

Additional details and impacted files

@@              Coverage Diff              @@
##             develop    #6151      +/-   ##
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- Coverage      48.85%   48.79%   -0.06%     
- Complexity      4184     4186       +2     
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  Files            794      794              
  Lines          28054    28084      +30     
  Branches        3426     3427       +1     
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- Hits           13705    13704       -1     
- Misses         12910    12944      +34     
+ Partials        1439     1436       -3     

Files	Coverage Δ
...ta/discovery/registry/FileRegistryServiceImpl.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...ta/core/rpc/netty/AbstractNettyRemotingClient.java	18.71% <33.33%> (+0.18%)	⬆️
...ta/core/serializer/SerializerSecurityRegistry.java	54.44% <16.21%> (-28.89%)	⬇️

... and 11 files with indirect coverage changes

[slievrly]

LGTM

[funky-eyes]

LGTM