test: add test-os.yml for OS

[wangliang181230]

1、PR

1. 添加 test-os.yml 用于测试seata在各种操作系统下的运行情况。
   test: add test-os.yml for testing the OS

2. 调整单测、actions脚本、插件版本，提高CI成功率。
   Adjust unit-test, actions script and plugin versions to improve CI success rate.

3. 优化部分日志。
   Optimize some logs.

2、测试成功日志（Test success log）：

https://github.com/wangliang181230/seata/actions?query=branch%3Atest-os-2.x

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #6081 (bc12d52) into 2.x (bdfed8d) will increase coverage by 0.27%.
The diff coverage is 15.38%.

❗ Current head bc12d52 differs from pull request most recent head 9a1b17c. Consider uploading reports for the commit 9a1b17c to get more accurate results

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage     49.08%   49.35%   +0.27%     
- Complexity     4782     4805      +23     
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  Files           913      913              
  Lines         31678    31710      +32     
  Branches       3826     3827       +1     
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+ Hits          15549    15651     +102     
+ Misses        14592    14517      -75     
- Partials       1537     1542       +5     

Files	Coverage Δ
...ta/core/rpc/netty/AbstractNettyRemotingClient.java	18.51% <0.00%> (ø)
...ta/discovery/registry/FileRegistryServiceImpl.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...ta/core/serializer/SerializerSecurityRegistry.java	54.44% <16.21%> (-28.89%)	⬇️

... and 24 files with indirect coverage changes

[slievrly]

Here, it feels awkward to separate the arm64 testing from the Spring testing.

[wangliang181230]

Then I will try to merge test.yml and test-os.yml.

那我尝试把 test.yml 和 test-os.yml 合并掉。

[slievrly]

LGTM