remove duplicate flowcontroller listener

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What is the purpose of the change

remove duplicate flowcontroller listener

Brief changelog

add TripleHttp2FrameCodecBuilder to customize connection before building

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[sonarqubecloud]

Kudos, SonarCloud Quality Gate passed!   

0 Bugs
0 Vulnerabilities
0 Security Hotspots
4 Code Smells

88.9% Coverage
0.0% Duplication

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #11642 (1a9b61f) into 3.2 (638b193) will decrease coverage by 0.11%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

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##                3.2   #11642      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     69.50%   69.40%   -0.11%     
+ Complexity      341        2     -339     
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  Files          3096     1453    -1643     
  Lines        147362    61364   -85998     
  Branches      24563     9056   -15507     
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- Hits         102427    42590   -59837     
+ Misses        35763    14594   -21169     
+ Partials       9172     4180    -4992     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
.../apache/dubbo/rpc/filter/ProfilerServerFilter.java	54.54% <0.00%> (-18.19%)	⬇️
.../common/threadpool/serial/SerializingExecutor.java	72.41% <0.00%> (-6.90%)	⬇️
.../apache/dubbo/rpc/protocol/injvm/InjvmInvoker.java	64.00% <0.00%> (-4.00%)	⬇️
.../dubbo/monitor/support/AbstractMonitorFactory.java	80.00% <0.00%> (-3.34%)	⬇️
...moting/transport/netty4/NettyConnectionClient.java	74.83% <0.00%> (-3.23%)	⬇️
...c/main/java/org/apache/dubbo/rpc/RpcException.java	78.12% <0.00%> (-3.13%)	⬇️
.../dubbo/registry/integration/RegistryDirectory.java	69.55% <0.00%> (-1.39%)	⬇️
...e/dubbo/remoting/transport/netty/NettyChannel.java	55.68% <0.00%> (-1.14%)	⬇️
...bo/rpc/protocol/tri/stream/TripleClientStream.java	66.22% <0.00%> (-0.89%)	⬇️
...e/dubbo/registry/integration/DynamicDirectory.java	71.68% <0.00%> (-0.89%)	⬇️
... and 1667 more

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[AlbumenJ]

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[EarthChen]

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