Update RAPIDS 25.10 projects source code to build with CUDA 13

[robertmaynard]

CUDA 13 has numerous API breaks so we will need to rollout out changes across all projects to handle building with CUDA 13.

This is a required step before we can update our CI matrix to include CUDA 13

Projects that need updates:

• cudf
• cuml
• cuvs
• raft
• rapids-cmake
• rmm

[robertmaynard]

rapids-cmake
rapidsai/rapids-cmake#889 nvcomp update
rapidsai/rapids-cmake#891 set_architectures update
rapidsai/rapids-cmake#890 adds new compression api ( nice to have, not a blocker )

[robertmaynard]

rmm:
rapidsai/rmm#2004 Updates us to runtime APIs that work in CUDA 12 and 13

[robertmaynard]

cudf:
rapidsai/cudf#19585

[robertmaynard]

raft:
rapidsai/raft#2774

[robertmaynard]

cuvs:
rapidsai/cuvs#1219

[robertmaynard]

cuml:
rapidsai/cuml#7094