chore: Add clang-tidy readability checks for sus args

[Skylion007]

Description

• Add a clang-tidy readability check for suspicious args (when the arg names are swapped with the function args etc.). Useful for catching bugs.

Suggested changelog entry:

* Add clang-tidy readability check to catch potentially swapped function args

[rwgk]

Nice!

[rwgk]

@Skylion007, @henryiii, I'll go ahead merge this now to get it into my smart_holder update batch.