Update scalameta to v4.14.1

[mrdziuban]

I ran into an error in my codebase because the scalameta v4.8.7 doesn't support some of the newer Scala 3 syntax.

I regenerated the lockfile with

pants generate-lockfiles --generate-lockfiles-resolve=scala_parser_dev

I'm not 100% sure why so many lines were removed from it, let me know if there's a different way I should be regenerating it.

[sureshjoshi]

Thanks for the PR. Yeah, we should dig into what happened with that lock file, looks like it removed a lot, and added a few things

[mrdziuban]

It might be legit -- scalameta 4.8.7 depends on scalap, while scalameta 4.14.1 does not. Including all transitive dependencies, 4.8.7 has 15 deps and 4.14.1 only has 6.

[sureshjoshi]

I'll give it a shot on my side, and review the dep chain.

[sureshjoshi]

Just a heads up, trying to see if I can add this to our Dependabot - so we can automate this process a bit better. I'll likely try to do the updates via that process - so heads up that this PR might linger for a bit