build(deps): update to @tanstack/table v9

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What's New in TanStack Table V9

https://tanstack.com/table/latest/docs/framework/react/guide/migrating#what-s-new-in-tanstack-table-v9

TanStack Table V9 delivers major performance improvements, hundreds of bug fixes, new and refreshed features, and optional helpers for composing and managing tables. Despite the scale of the release, the headless model, core table logic, column definitions, and rendering patterns remain familiar.

See Core Breaking Changes