Update sql parser to v0.20.0

[waitingkuo]

Which issue does this PR close?

Closes #3071

Rationale for this change

keep up with dependencies

#2867 and #3037 need sqlparser v0.20.0

What changes are included in this PR?

NestedJoin now support alias

Are there any user-facing changes?

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #3072 (8640e8b) into master (0e0931d) will increase coverage by 0.00%.
The diff coverage is 84.21%.

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  Files         289      289           
  Lines       51890    51907   +17     
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+ Hits        44548    44567   +19     
+ Misses       7342     7340    -2     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
datafusion/sql/src/planner.rs	82.02% <40.00%> (+0.07%)	⬆️
datafusion/core/tests/sql/joins.rs	99.33% <100.00%> (+0.01%)	⬆️
datafusion/core/src/physical_plan/metrics/value.rs	87.43% <0.00%> (+0.50%)	⬆️

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[alamb]

Thanks @waitingkuo

[ursabot]

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