add config.SetMkldnnCacheCapacity api for mkldnn cache clear strategy

[luotao1]

1. add config.SetMkldnnCacheCapacity(xxx) api for mkldnn cache clear strategy, xxx means the mkldnn_cache_capacity for difference input shape.
2. simplify the TEST(Analyzer_MM_DNN, mkldnn_cache_clear) with the new api, and add output compare between no cache strategy and using cache strategy.
3. add the TEST(Analyzer_MM_DNN, mkldnn_shape_blob_size) using AnalysisPredictor::ZeroCopyRun, since the new api will reset the cur_mkldnn_session_id to default.

related #18549

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[luotao1]

@LeoZhao-Intel I move #18549 to here.