Change to enable full iteration CUDA graph for LLMs

[vasunvidia]

Important

The Update branch button must only be pressed in very rare occassions.
An outdated branch is never blocking the merge of a PR.
Please reach out to the automation team before pressing that button.

What does this PR do ?

Enables Full iteration CUDA graph for NeMo models.

Changelog

• Add specific line by line info of high level changes in this PR.

Usage

• You can potentially add a usage example below

# Add a code snippet demonstrating how to use this 

GitHub Actions CI

The Jenkins CI system has been replaced by GitHub Actions self-hosted runners.

The GitHub Actions CI will run automatically when the "Run CICD" label is added to the PR.
To re-run CI remove and add the label again.
To run CI on an untrusted fork, a NeMo user with write access must first click "Approve and run".

Before your PR is "Ready for review"

Pre checks:

• Make sure you read and followed Contributor guidelines
• Did you write any new necessary tests?
• Did you add or update any necessary documentation?
• Does the PR affect components that are optional to install? (Ex: Numba, Pynini, Apex etc)
  • Reviewer: Does the PR have correct import guards for all optional libraries?

PR Type:

• New Feature
• Bugfix
• Documentation

If you haven't finished some of the above items you can still open "Draft" PR.

Who can review?

Anyone in the community is free to review the PR once the checks have passed.
Contributor guidelines contains specific people who can review PRs to various areas.

Additional Information

• Related to # (issue)

[katec846]

I’m not entirely sure what the final PR solution should look like, but for cases where pipeline parallelism is greater than 1, we currently have two options:

1. Remove the sync() call in p2p_communication.py though we would need to justify that it's safe to remove it.
2. Add assertions to ensure that config.batch_p2p_sync == False and config.variable_seq_lengths ==False

Also, for cases where VP > 1, we need to disable optim.overlap_param_gather on H100 to make it able to run.