Improve handling of in-progress exceptions

[loyd]

See ClickHouse/ClickHouse#46426 (comment) for details.

[mshustov]

ClickHouse/ClickHouse#68800 has landed in 24.11

[mshustov]

depends on ClickHouse/ClickHouse#75175

[loyd]

It seems that the current check can skip the following exception (because it has Net prefix)

Code: 210. DB::NetException: I/O error: Broken pipe, while writing to socket (127.0.0.1:9000 -> 127.0.0.1:54646). (NETWORK_ERROR) (version 23.8.8.20 (official build))

[abonander]

ClickHouse/ClickHouse#88818 is released in 25.11 so this can move forward now.

[abonander]

closed by #365