improve grpc stream stability and performance

[Stephen02Zhang]

closes #3400

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #3402 (5b3fb96) into release/1.4.0 (841eedc) will increase coverage by 0.40%.
The diff coverage is 27.27%.

Additional details and impacted files

@@                Coverage Diff                @@
##           release/1.4.0    #3402      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage          90.19%   90.60%   +0.40%     
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  Files                651      653       +2     
  Lines              24324    24356      +32     
  Branches            2137     2142       +5     
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+ Hits               21939    22067     +128     
+ Misses              2280     2184      -96     
  Partials             105      105              

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
....Core/Network/Events/StreamMessageReceivedEvent.cs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...OS.Core/Network/Events/StreamPeerExceptionEvent.cs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/AElf.OS.Network.Grpc/Connection/PeerDialer.cs	94.11% <ø> (-1.13%)	⬇️
src/AElf.OS.Network.Grpc/Peer/GrpcPeer.cs	87.57% <ø> (+3.10%)	⬆️
.../AElf.OS.Network.Grpc/Service/GrpcServerService.cs	100.00% <ø> (ø)
src/AElf.OS.Network.Grpc/Service/IStreamService.cs	42.10% <ø> (+18.42%)	⬆️
...dlers/Network/StreamMessageReceivedEventHandler.cs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...andlers/Network/StreamPeerExceptionEventHandler.cs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
src/AElf.OS.Network.Grpc/Peer/GrpcStreamPeer.cs	45.67% <18.75%> (+45.67%)	⬆️
src/AElf.OS.Network.Grpc/Helpers/CommonHelper.cs	92.30% <80.00%> (+54.80%)	⬆️
... and 3 more

... and 2 files with indirect coverage changes