bugfix : check if table meta cache should be refreshed in AT mode

[Bughue]

#4734

(cherry picked from commit 28b3413)

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Merging #5395 (0f1f8af) into 2.x (5aa6c29) will decrease coverage by 0.05%.
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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...datasource/exec/mysql/MySQLUpdateJoinExecutor.java	78.34% <ø> (ø)
...n/java/io/seata/rm/datasource/DataSourceProxy.java	76.59% <33.33%> (-3.80%)	⬇️
...ta/rm/datasource/exec/AbstractDMLBaseExecutor.java	51.85% <50.00%> (-5.30%)	⬇️
...m/datasource/sql/struct/TableMetaCacheFactory.java	52.63% <50.00%> (-22.37%)	⬇️
...ta/rm/datasource/exception/TableMetaException.java	66.66% <80.00%> (ø)
...o/seata/rm/datasource/sql/struct/TableRecords.java	68.18% <100.00%> (+1.20%)	⬆️
...ource/sql/struct/cache/AbstractTableMetaCache.java	82.35% <0.00%> (-2.95%)	⬇️
...rage/redis/store/RedisTransactionStoreManager.java	77.12% <0.00%> (-2.32%)	⬇️
...o/seata/server/coordinator/DefaultCoordinator.java	45.45% <0.00%> (-0.42%)	⬇️
...erver/storage/file/session/FileSessionManager.java	61.78% <0.00%> (+0.63%)	⬆️
... and 2 more

[slievrly]

LGTM

[slievrly]

1. How to stop the refresh thread after the dataSource is closed?
2. How to close the refresh thread after dataSource overwriting.

[slievrly]

@Bughue Please improve it in the next pr.

[slievrly]

pr code incorrect.