[component] Add support for components specifying what instruments to enable depending on metric level

[mx-psi]

After doing #11061, we still need a way for components that make use of service::telemetry::metrics::level to specify what instruments are enabled at which level (or figure out how to use this exactly).

We need this at SDK creation time so this would probably be factory option.

If we want to sidestep this issue, we could hardcode things for the components that use this (batch processor, configgrpc, confighttp, otelarrow) instead.

cc @bogdandrutu

[mx-psi]

This can be done in a backwards compatible way (a method on the Factory interface) and we have been able to implement a workaround, so, while we need to do this at some point, I am going to remove it from Collector 1.0