feat(NODE-7157): deprecate retryWrites in CommandOperationOptions

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Description

Summary of Changes

Deprecate option retryWrites in CommandOperationOptions.

Release Highlight

CommandOperationOptions.retryWrites is deprecated

CommandOperationOptions.retryWrites is deprecated. This per‑command option has no effect; the Node.js driver only honors retryWrites when configured at the client level (MongoClient options) or via the connection string. Do not use this option on individual commands. There is no runtime behavior change because it was already ignored, but it will be removed in an upcoming major release and may cause type or build errors in code that references it. To control retryable writes, set retryWrites in MongoClient options or include retryWrites=true|false in the connection string.

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