Prevent Routing.Type=auto from enabling dhtserver mode if have too low of limits

[BigLep]

Done Criteria

A Kubo node with Routing.Type=auto doesn't attempt to be a DHT server if the following additional conditions aren't met:

1. Swarm.ResourceMgr.System.ConnsInbound > 800 AND
2. Swarm.ResourceMgr.System.StreamsInbound > 800 AND
3. Swarm.ResourceMgr.Protocol.kaddht.StreamsInbound > 800 AND
4. Swarm.ConnMgr is enabled

(Existing logic of ensuring the node is publicly dialable will still apply.)

• Code change (above)
• Docs change: https://github.com/ipfs/kubo/blob/master/docs/config.md#routingtype
• Changelog addition

Why Important

If a "dhtserver" node advertises itself to the DHT but has too-low of hard Swarm.ResourceMgr limits, then it won't be able to function and be of value to the DHT and instead degrades performance.

Notes

• Kubo maintainers have observed instances of this happening in practice.
• See notes in Computed default ResourceMgr limits account for ConnMgr HighWater and are sufficiently high #9545 about:
  • Why 800
  • Why Swarm.ResourceMgr.System.StreamsInbound in addition to Swarm.ResourceMgr.System.Streamsnbound

[lidel]

@Jorropo this will be only applied when custom Swarm.ResourceMgr.Limits is present in the config, right?

I assume we don't want to apply this to people running with the implicit defaults, otherwise many current DHT servers like mine will disappear when they updade, causing higher load on remaining DHT servers.

Example: I run my 0.18.0-rc2 node with implicit defaults ConnMgr (32/96) and ResourceMgr defaults as well.

Have 32GB RAM and ResourceMgr calculated ConnsInbound to be ~558, not 800:

{
  "Conns": 1000000000,
  "ConnsInbound": 558,
  "ConnsOutbound": 1000000000,
  "FD": 524288,
  "Memory": 8300000000,
  "Streams": 1000000000,
  "StreamsInbound": 8939,
  "StreamsOutbound": 1000000000
}

[Jorropo]

@lidel because of #9555 the default scalling config will always be above thoses limit, so yes this indeed only applies to manually configured nodes.
(note the checks are >= not >)

[BigLep]

@ajnavarro : per 2023-01-17 standup, base your work on #9555