Build: specify Node.js 16 as minimum for dev (#26343)

- Specifies Node 16 as the minimum supported version.
- Remove no longer supported 17.x version (per
https://nodejs.dev/en/about/releases/)
- Add 19.x

Test Plan:
(using node 19) as that's what I'm adding)
- yarn build
- yarn test

Author: kassens

.nvmrc

@@ -1 +1 @@
-v14.17.6
+v16.19.1

package.json

@@ -102,7 +102,7 @@
     "yargs": "^15.3.1"
   },
   "devEngines": {
-    "node": "^12.17.0 || 13.x || 14.x || 15.x || 16.x || 17.x || 18.x"
+    "node": "16.x || 18.x || 19.x"
   },
   "jest": {
     "testRegex": "/scripts/jest/dont-run-jest-directly\\.js$"