[oneDNN] Disable cache matmul v1 & refactoring (#35331)

* - refactoring progressing

- Fix

- compilation fix

- another compilation fix

- refactoring

* - fix

* - compilation fix

* - compilation fix

* - missing set_format

* - compilation fix

* - reverted setting memeory format

* - Brought back format

* - Fix

* - fixes after review

* CI rerun

* CI rerun

Author: jczaja